Being Lazy Is Good For Monogomy

I am involved in I suppose what can be characterized as an exclusive relationship. We haven't sat down and clearly defined the parameters, but the unspoken agreement seems to be that for at least the time being we will only have sex with each other. Unless I'm wrong and she's out banging everyone she can in which case I might need to take a workshop, class, or something on unspoken agreements. That's the problem with things that are unspoken they're also a bit uncertain, but I digress. Now monogamy isn't really a value for me. Not to say I actively sleep around I'm just rather indifferent to the idea of monogamy. Now I rather like the girl I'm seeing she's good company, she's good for conversation, and she's someone you can have a beer with. She's like a friend I can put my penis in, and that's a rather rare arrangement to have. Now I live in Chicago so of course there are women everywhere. Not only that but this is the age of online dating. So its come to the point where leaving the house is no longer required to meet women. Now I have a pretty decent sex drive and throughout the week I definitely get the itch. So even living in a city full of singles that I can connect to instantly via the web how do I resist that temptation? Well I just think to myself how much work it is to actually strike up a conversation then get to the point where an actual date happens. By the time all that work would be done I would have seen the girl I'm already involved with we would have dinner and sex and my mind would be free to think of other things. So do I have the option to cheat? Of course, but is trying to date several different people something that's really worth the time, money, and energy? What's worse than meeting a new person? Meeting a new person you have to have a one on one face to face conversation with for possibly several hours. So when  my dick gets to saying "hey man I'm jacked! What you trying to do tonight?" I just think of the hours effort and all the money I would have to invest just to maybe get the chance to have a sexual encounter and I just say fuck it I'm content to wait a couple nights to get laid again. Now I understand why people want to have sex with as many different people as possible. Having sex with someone for the first time can be pretty awesome, but again its like spinning a roulette wheel are you even sure it'll happen? If it does was it worth everything that went into it?